Comments on: Coping With Jealousy

By: james

james — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 00:39:13 +0000

My dad gets jelous over me by getting my own money i wish he wouldnt. and i think he’s jelous cause he wants the money not me not sure why but thats how he is. wish he wasnt and just loved me.

By: Melinda

Melinda — Fri, 08 Apr 2011 00:34:13 +0000

My father has a son by another women. He never really been in his life because the boys mother is a bitch. Recently my father has been spending time with the boy. I myself has spent time with him considering his my brother and all, but he is so freaking annoying and I honestly can’t stand being around him; I really don’t consider him has family. I am 21 years old and I know that it is very immature, but I don’t like him getting to know my father and spending time with him. Jealously has reared it’s ugly head, and I need help.

By: cheekie

cheekie — Sun, 27 Feb 2011 07:18:45 +0000

well i have bin jealous ever sence i was cheated on. now im with a great guy but he gets often frustrated with me because i get jealous of every girl he meets online. for some reason its only the girls i havent met before. i have tryed everything i dont know what else to do

By: Kersten

Kersten — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 14:47:15 +0000

I’m jealous. My boyfriend and I have been dating 5 months an now suddenly I’m jealous of his best friend that is a girl. I feel like he sees her As this perfect girl. She is skinny, funny, flirty, and looks alot like him. I dont want to be like this. He feels like I’m pushing him away from all his girl friends. I don’t mean to! I love this boi But I feel like I’m destroying our relationship. I couldnt even look at him without feeling ashamed…. Help me plz

By: pinkpetals

pinkpetals — Thu, 13 Jan 2011 00:13:47 +0000

i never used to be jealous. I had a 4 year relationship a few years back and never experienced jealousy. I am now in the best relationship of my life, but consequently I am destroying it with these jealous behaviors. I get jealous when my bf looks at his female roommate, i get jealous when he looks at women at the store, even when he goes out with his friends I feel jealous because I think he is going to look at more women or go to the strip club because his friends like to go. To top it off I caught him a week ago touching himself while watching a porn about girls of the month..and I’m having a hard time getting over it. i keep throwing it in his face and acting super hurt. The stupid thing is that him and I have watched porn together numerous times.We have the hottest sex EVER. For some reason when he does it without me though, I get super jealous. My jealousy is ruining our relationship. I need help!

By: Christine

Christine — Thu, 09 Dec 2010 04:41:35 +0000

I have a boyfriend with a wealthy family. I did not know this prior to dating him. He does not like to show his wealth. My family is in the low class , even our house is 100 yrs old and still has mice living with us. His house is 4 yrs old, everythng top of the line, porche , Lexus BMW, 10000 louis vuitton products everywhere. Yeah bling. My boyfriend is the best bf ive ever had and does not exploit his money. But sometimes his mom buys him expensive clothes, face products , gucci things, and even the down payment on his new car. His university tuition was paid for, his bedroom 3x siZe of mine. And he’s going on the 2nd cruise vacation this year. I have none of those. In fact I paid for my own new car that i bought last month, and university was paid for on my own (I still have student loans) and I pay for bills at home while I live at home for Internet. Tv. Electricity because we are poor and my parents aren’t the smartest. So I am so jealous of his brothers New Car (2010 golf gti) and their family vacations. They drop money like its nothing. I get so jealous!! He’s a great boyfriend though, mind you. He tries his best to help my situation bcos I’m in a lot of student loan debt and car debt. His mom is a stay at home mom for 23 years now. When his brother was choosing a car, he didn’t have to worry about the price or getting a the best deal bcos it was coming out from his dads pocket. I just bought my first car at 25 and don’t have to take the bus anymore finally. Like the article said, we can avoid them. So I hate going to Their house bcos everything I go there I feel hatred and jealously. Now the bf gets to go on 2nd cruise (oasis of the seas) vacation. While I stay here and work and study (I’m articling in accounting/finance) . We are both 25. I don’t know and I don’t want to be patient and earn these vacations and half million dollar houses. I just want them to appear in front of me like it does for my bf. I hate him but I love him. Domt know what to do but avoid him and his family right now.

By: Hannah

Hannah — Fri, 26 Nov 2010 21:25:28 +0000

Im jealous of my husband and his coworker because i know for myself that in his eyes his coworker
Is beautiful for him because she has all the characteristics he wants.. I have tried to open up wih him about
My jealousy problem but im still insecure darn..

By: Teffy

Teffy — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 20:38:48 +0000

I’ve never been jealous in my life before, but now with my actual boyfriend i cant stop being jealous, i’ve been thinking about it. what is making me jealous? and i came to the conclusion that is not about him cheating on me, its about the time that he doesn’t spend with me, its killing me because when he is with me i enjoy him and he makes me so happy, but when he says that he has to go because he needs to spend time with his dad or friends i get so upset, i try not to show it, but its killing me inside, i don’t want to say anything because i don’t want him thinking that i’m trying to control his life. theres a story about a little kid who had a lil cat, he loved his cat so much that he hugged him until he suffocated him to death…i don’t want that to happen to us, i don’t my love to destroy our relationship. i really don’t know what to do.

By: ArtFreak12

ArtFreak12 — Sun, 07 Nov 2010 15:42:21 +0000

Ever since i can remember, i have always been a pretty jealous person towards people. But it is not like a get jealous over stupid things though, i get pretty jealous at things in necessary situations. I don’t know why but people just really do not seem to like me at all these days. I do nothing wrong either, i am kind, fun, funny, and friendly to everyone i get in contact with. I hardly hurt anyone’s feelings and always listen to what people say especially when they are feeling down about a situation. But sometimes i think people really care less about me since i am constantly ignored. I am starting to think that perhaps i am envied or looked down upon because i am so nice, smart, and different from the rest. But why should i mold myself in becoming someone i am not…why should i dumb down myself, or pretend to be as mean and fake as them? I do not believe in really hurting others and like unity and harmony within a friendship/realtionship. But the more i keep living life and meeting people, the more i feel like nobody really understands or sees me as being anyone. I hate being different and rejected all the time and therefore i get extremely jealous at those who ignore me or give someone all the attention when they are no better than me. Do i sound selfish or i do i have the right to get jealous over things like these? I dislike constantly feeling hurt from the rejection and jealousy from my so called friends and family members and would just like to be accepted for who i am. Should i just ignore them and keep on being me or should i change my ways?

By: Sadgirl

Sadgirl — Fri, 17 Sep 2010 23:09:25 +0000

I have been in a relationship with a same sex partner, and im not goin to lie I have been a jealous person since a remember, but lately I feel like everything makes me jealous where we work our friends even family members and now my mate has threaten that she’s moving out, i have no control over my jealousy and i hate it i avoid them as much as possible and its not the right thing to do, i just don’t want to be feeling like this anymore i’m tired and don’t know what i want to do sometimes?